Religion: This is the second most important topic when dating an Indonesian girl because few of them will make a compromise about it.
If you are catholic and no ready to adapt, then you will have some troubles finding an Indonesian girl who suits you.
The guy may also wonder if the girl is "interested", meaning that as soon as the money flow stops, the girl will walk away without any regrets.
- Even for small amounts, do not give the impressions that money isn't important for you.
The situation faced by many expats is that they don't mind paying, because they understand that the girl cannot afford some expenses that are clearly part of the "expat lifestyle".
However, they do not want to be considered as cash cows or walking ATMs.
How do you arrange her coming to your home country?
Visit them, and make sure that everyone is doing its share too, including all the relatives.
I need to meet someone who I live in Austria, but grew up in Hungary. I like traveling to new interesting places, meeting new people.